In order to overcome barriers in communication we need to establish what these barriers are.
Poor speech and unintelligible accent
Lack of cultural and social knowledge
Psychological issues, such as autism and inability to adapt to others
Poor listening skills
Lack of communication experience
In order to master your speech I recommend that you download three apps:
Get Rid of your Accent UK1, Fluent English Speech and Power, Pitch, Pace, Pause.
Read about other cultures and observe people from other cultures, try to understand and adapt accordingly.
If needed have a few therapy sessions with a psychotherapist and sort out your internal pain that might hinder happy and successful communication.
Work hard on your listening skills. In my opinion, good listening skills are the number one tool of successful communication. This skill is hard to master for many people. Often, when we talk to others, we do not have the patience to listen. We hear a few words and very quickly we start anticipating what the other person will say. We even try to finish their sentences which is not very helpful, particularly for the person who is talking.
What would be more effective? When listening to others pay attention to who you are speaking to. What do their vocabulary, intonation, and voice tell you about them?
Rather than commenting, judging or advising on what you are listening to, try to establish a rapport with the person by adjusting to their way. Try to find a common ground and avoid frictions and arguments that can lead to miscommunication and quarrels.
Finally, do not be afraid to communicate your ideas to people. The more you do it the better you will become at it.
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